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Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year!

It's 2009. A new year. 2008 was a great year. I hope, and plan to make, 2009 even better.

To kick off the New Year I'm taking the lead of a fellow blogger, 2 Moms, and choosing "One Little Word" for the year instead of a long list of New Years resolutions. I've searched and searched for my word for 2008 and keep coming back to the word she is using. This single word embodies everything I want to achieve and build my life around in 2009. That word is "Choose".

In 2009 I will continue to live life with choices.

  • I choose to be present when I'm with Riley.
  • I choose to continue to teach Riley about choices and consequences.
  • I choose to be nurture a strong work ethic in an effort to be a positive role model for my daughter.
  • I choose to focus on my health.
  • I choose to incorporate exercise and activity into my families life.
  • I choose to focus on our families finances and financial future.
  • I choose to be a more caring and thoughtful wife.
  • I choose to keep a journal of our lives "Raising Riley" (aka as blogging).

To kick this off, me the person who hasn't blogged for three months (which I'll write about why later) is vowing to blog every day in January to get me back in the swing of things. I may not have enough time to post comments on my blog friends blogs, which I still read every day, but I will blog about our life, even if it's brief. Here's to a wonderful 2009!

I didn't want to leave without posting pictures BUT for some reason I can't get anything to upload. I'll try again tomorrow.

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2 comments:

ajs4ever said...

YEAH! So good to see you posting! I know things can get crazy but it sure is great to hear from ya! I look forward to the updates this month:)

Happy 2009!

January 1, 2009 at 10:02:00 PM MST
Strong said...

I havne't checked your blog in a while, mainly because I've seen that picture of Riley with the towel on her head about 100 times........Glad your back...now I need to to catch up on my ready.

January 13, 2009 at 5:09:00 PM MST

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Our Conception Story

After eight years together we were pretty sure we'd spend our life with our four legged kids, doing lots of camping, and traveling the world. On August 12, 2004 that all changed with the birth of our God Daughter Tate. We immediately fell completely in love with her and soon began to re-think our decision of not having kids.

In October 2005 we began the process of trying to conceive. As soon as we started trying Shelly began having very erratic cycles which made the process that more complicated. After four tries over six months we decided to schedule a consultation with the a Reproductive Specialist. We were desperate to conceive and on a limited time frame since Shelly had just turned 41. Dee was 35 at the time but not able to conceive due to a medical procedure.

Our first appointment with the Repro Man was May 2006. He suggested we try IVF using Dee's eggs and Shelly as the gestational mother. He felt this scenario would give us the highest chance for success of a healthy pregnancy. We spent a short amount of time weighing our options and decided this was the best choice. We began our first IVF cycle in August. They did the Egg Retrieval and Fertilization on 8/31. Three days later, 9/3, they transferred three embryos into Shelly. Then the wait began.

Shelly promised not to begin the home pregnancy test too soon. Dee had to travel out of state for business a week after the transfer and asked Shelly to please wait to test. BUT, the wait was too much for her and she started testing after a week. At first there was no line. But after a couple of days testing a faint line started to appear. When Dee came home from her trip Shelly told her, "I know I'm pregnant." Dee didn't believe her and insisted the line wasn't dark enough so she tested herself to compare. There was absolutely no line. She began to believe Shelly was pregnant but still had doubt. Dee went to the store and bought another brand of testing strips. After five home tests, we were convinced we we're pregnant due to all positive results. A blood test at two weeks confirmed it; we were going to have a baby!