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Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Still Jumping Hurdles

Little Miss Riley continues to amaze. She still consistently jumps hurdles and beats all expectations just like when she was in the womb. She was extabated early this morning, sooner than they were expecting. She pulled out her own feeding tube, earlier than they would have, but she didn't need it anymore. She's also almost passed three of the four steps that need to be completed to be released.
  1. Breathing room air consistently. (She only needed oxygen for less than 12 hours because of the surgery.)
  2. Maintaining her own body temperature. (She's done this since birth.)
  3. Move from a temperature bed (I don't know the medical term) to a crib. (She'll move to a crib tomorrow.)
  4. Consistent eating and gaining weight. (We're working on this. She just started taking milk today. She has dropped to 6 lbs. 8 oz. from 8 lbs. 3 oz. at birth. One pound of that was from the Hygroma. Unbelievable that she had an extra pound of fluid off the side of her neck.)

The great news is she may be home by this weekend if she continues doing this well. Yeah!!! Our little Sunshine is a SUPER STAR!

Shelly has highs and lows. She's still struggling with an Ileus (small bowel obstruction). She was on the mend and they moved her to clear liquids but she's now taken a step backwards and back off clear liquids. Looks like she won't be released tomorrow as planned. She's just been in so much pain. She's got to start feeling better soon! The only good thing about keeping her in the hospital is we're walking distance to Primary's making it easy to go back and forth to see Riley.

There are more stories to tell but again I'm climbing in to bed exhausted.

I'm leaving you with a few pics of Riley from today.

28 comments:

Ky said...

She is so beautiful - and looks very peaceful for just having had surgery! I'm so happy for you and your family. Best wishes to Shelly - I hope she feels better soon!

Boo said...

She is absolutely amazing!! She looks very healthy and is such a fighter!! Thanks for sharing and you are both in our thoughts!!

tifferny said...

she's an angel and she's beautiful...

amy said...

our prayers are with you every step of the way. I'm sorry that Shelly is in so much pain. Your daughter is beautiful Dee. I mean really amazing. Congrats to you both.

Anonymous said...

Uncle Steve here..... I did not go to the hospital today because I was not feeling well and thought it was better to be safe. I am going CRAZY!!!!!!!!! I SO NEED TO HOLD HER! She is SO beautiful!!!!!!!!!! Every time I see her I cry :-)

Lynn Cameron said...

What an amazing little babe you have! And quite the little beauty, as well. Sending many good wishes for a rapid recovery for both Shelly and Riley (and for you to take good care of yourself, too, Dee!).

hotomiky said...

She looks so beautiful!!! Amazing Riley! She is def. a fighter!

Hope Shelly feel better today...

Welcome Riely

Congrats to you both mommies!!!

Holly said...

She's SOOO BEAUTIFUL! She really is an amazing little one. What a determined little girl.

I know you are anxious to get home, but allow yourselves some rest while you can.

Please give our best to Shelly to feel better soon.

Lots of love, Holly, Lois & Andrew

lagiulia said...

I'm here from arcane. Congratulations on your baby! My boys were in the NICU for 3 and 4 weeks. My thoughts are with you and your daughter. She is absolutely beautiful.

K J and the kids said...

I'm with Steve....I SO NEED TO HOLD HER ! My jaw aches from clinching it when I see pictures of her :)
I'm glad she's doing good. Wouldn't that be awesome if Shelly and Riley could be released at the same time.
I hope Shelly starts feeling better.

Kim aka Mommy said...

Glad to hear Riley's doing so good! Hugs and feel better dust to Shelly.

Denise said...

What a little fighter, and so beautiful too. Good thoughts coming your way. Denise

S&C said...

She is wonderful and amazing! I am so glad she is doing SO well!

Steph said...

Riley is beautiful and perfect! I'm so glad the surgery went so well and she's doing great! Now we have to get mama Shelly feeling better and pretty soon mamas and baby will be home. Congratulations!

Wendy and Karen said...

She's so beautiful. And such a strong little girl. We're sending good recovery vibes to her and Shelly.

Merr said...

She is a SUPER STAR!! She is gorgeous!
I hope you guys can go home this weekend and start your life with your little Angel!

Anonymous said...

she's so beautiful! And so strong! You guys will be home in no time!

Jeanna said...

Dee&Shelly,
Just wanted to say congrats! Connie's kept me updated and I am so happy for you! I wish you the best! You deserve it!

Anonymous said...

Wow.. What a BEAUTIFUL Angel you've got.
What great news!
Please send our love to Shelly as well and we'll pray that she starts feeling better as well..
Love you all and BIG HUGZ!!!
:)

Anonymous said...

Damn STEVE!! Just made me and Lala cry... How sweet.. Ahhhh

Anonymous said...

I am so glad that Riley is doing well. I hope both of you are able to draw stength from seening your little girl on the mend.

NiaCP said...

Thank you for sharing your story with so many of us! You have given us strength to give more to our own kids and hug/kiss them tenderly! Now take our strength you have built deeper in us and give it to Shelly and Riley so they will come home soon:)

Stef said...

Heard from my mother that you guys met finally. Also heard that she is doing great!!!

Please send me pics :)

stefani_ca@yahoo.com

So nice to have this little conection :D

Love to hear more news :D

Jennifer said...

She is absolutely beautiful!!!! I can't believe I had to wait till today to see her picture! I need a lot mopre pictures...what about that close up of her perfect litttle fce with her perfect little chubby cheeks?? I am SO hapy that things are going well. But, then again, Riley has been a fighter since the beginning, so we didn't expect any less than hurdle jumping.

I am so happy for you three!!

I'm sorry shelly can't go home quite yet. You've sent me a-googling to investigate what that bowel obstruction is all about. Has she had no foods since delvery?? That is just not fair.

More pictures please when you get the chance!

Casey said...

I know you are busy taking care of your girls but the selfish part of me is so eager for an update that I am stopping by every few hours. I hope things are continuing along as the AMAZING pace they are. She is breathtakingly beautiful, though I just knew she would be. :)

Know you are in my thoughts and I am praying for you all. Here's to a double Saturday homecoming! :)

MommyNay said...

Rileys IS a SUPER STAR! I am *so* sorry that Shelly is having such a hard recovery...I hope that she is better soon!

Woman Lost said...

delurking to tell you that she is absolutely gorgeous! My sis and her partner are tryin to have a little one as well. Lots of prayers to Shelley for her quick recovery. And to you, of course! Wont be long and you will have your girls home with you!!

Anonymous said...

gorgeous--she is GORGEOUS.
oh you guys I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!!
OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
so happy for you.
send addy, send addy, send addy---i must buy a welcome gift for this little superstar!
hugs
rae
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Our Conception Story

After eight years together we were pretty sure we'd spend our life with our four legged kids, doing lots of camping, and traveling the world. On August 12, 2004 that all changed with the birth of our God Daughter Tate. We immediately fell completely in love with her and soon began to re-think our decision of not having kids.

In October 2005 we began the process of trying to conceive. As soon as we started trying Shelly began having very erratic cycles which made the process that more complicated. After four tries over six months we decided to schedule a consultation with the a Reproductive Specialist. We were desperate to conceive and on a limited time frame since Shelly had just turned 41. Dee was 35 at the time but not able to conceive due to a medical procedure.

Our first appointment with the Repro Man was May 2006. He suggested we try IVF using Dee's eggs and Shelly as the gestational mother. He felt this scenario would give us the highest chance for success of a healthy pregnancy. We spent a short amount of time weighing our options and decided this was the best choice. We began our first IVF cycle in August. They did the Egg Retrieval and Fertilization on 8/31. Three days later, 9/3, they transferred three embryos into Shelly. Then the wait began.

Shelly promised not to begin the home pregnancy test too soon. Dee had to travel out of state for business a week after the transfer and asked Shelly to please wait to test. BUT, the wait was too much for her and she started testing after a week. At first there was no line. But after a couple of days testing a faint line started to appear. When Dee came home from her trip Shelly told her, "I know I'm pregnant." Dee didn't believe her and insisted the line wasn't dark enough so she tested herself to compare. There was absolutely no line. She began to believe Shelly was pregnant but still had doubt. Dee went to the store and bought another brand of testing strips. After five home tests, we were convinced we we're pregnant due to all positive results. A blood test at two weeks confirmed it; we were going to have a baby!