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Sunday, May 20, 2007

Just Like Her Momma!

Little Miss Riley loves to sleep, and sleep, and sleep. Today we escorted her to her MRI. Because they need babies to hold still in order to get good imaging they need to sedate them. Well, not our Riley! She slept. The whole time. Just napped away. 45 minutes worth of imaging and she hardly budged. She likes her naps just like her Momma Dee!

We met with the surgeon again today. He's wonderful. We really like him. Bedside manner goes a long way with us. She is on the schedule for tomorrow after 1:00 pm. He had the MRI done today so they would have plenty of time to review the images before surgery. There will be a team in the surgery consisting of our Pediatric surgeon, plastic surgeon, and surgeon residents. The biggest risks, besides those associated with any surgery, are 1) There are two major nerves that may come into play. They'll have to be particularly careful to not impact those nerves. 2) They're not able to, or don't, get it all. This could mean potential recurrence which is not uncommon.

So, tomorrow morning we'll rest and spend lots of time with her. Then the surgery tomorrow afternoon which he feels may take around six hours. OMG! Six hours! What do you do for six hours while your little, two day old girl, is in surgery? I know it's not sleep!

Everyone, please keep the prayers and well wishes coming. Tomorrow's a big day. I'll do my best to post an update tomorrow night.

I leave you with a couple more snap shots of Riley. We're being very careful and not posting any pictures of the Hygroma. It's quite big and to us she's just beautiful, but to others it can be a little over whelming.

Riley with Momma Dee and Riley with God Mommy Angie (Yes, she's lucky enough to have TWO God Mommies!)


21 comments:

K J and the kids said...

Dee she is just gorgeous. I mean absolutely precious.
I will be thinking of you like crazy. Please post or call with news on the surgery. Can't there be a call list for that ? :)
Like everything else this baby has overcome...she will with this surgery as well.
I CANNOT WAIT TO HOLD HER ! YUMMMM

Oh, and could Shelly's sister look any more like her. I thought it WAS Shelly :)

((((((((((((HUGE BIG GIGANTIC BEAR HUG FOR YOUR FAMILY)))))))))))
Not letting go until Riley's awake and in her mommies arms tomorrow.

hotomiky said...

She s so beautiful - gorgeous!!! We will be thinking of you tmr all day!!!

Please let us know how princess riley doing tmr...

:o)

congrats!!!

MommyNay said...

She is *so* beautiful!!! Congrats Mama's and happy baby mooning! I am thrilled for all 3 of you :D
GL tomorrow I will keep you three and the medical team/staff in my thoughts and prayers for an uncomplicated surgery and a speedy recovery!

Stacey said...

we are thinking of you!!! we know surgery will go well and you'll have her home soon!

i think seeing pics of the hygroma would be interesting--it'll be something for her to see what she overcame as an itty bitty newborn. and you're right--she is absolutely adorable!!! we see some similarities with big sis. :) can't wait for more updates and to eventually meet miss riley in person!!

Anonymous said...

Just delurking to let you know I'll be thinking of you two and your princess tomorrow. It sounds as if you have a great medical team on board and that you both are as prepared for this as is humanly possible. I know you probably don't have a choice to be any other way! Still, the stress must be enormous but the grace you have exuded is obvious. I am wishing everyone a speedy recovery.

Casey said...

She is amazing and beautiful! Congratulations.

I'll be holding all three of you in my heart tomorrow. Hugs.

Jen said...

Riley is just gorgeous! Beautiful, perfect little features!I will have you all in my thoughts tomorrow as the doctors take care of your little one.

Liz said...

Just stopping through (found you via Trista writing on LesbianFamily.org) to wish you both congratulations--your daughter is gorgeous.
We'll keep you in our thoughts and wish a speedy and successful surgery for Riley.
And congrats again!

Ky said...

We will be thinking of little Riley, and you and Shelly tomorrow! She is precious - thanks for sharing pictures!

Anonymous said...

Wishing you all the best, and hoping the surgery goes by quickly.
You have a beautiful and strong baby, she must of got that from her mommies!

amy said...

congrats girls.
we are praying for you and thinking of you.

SJayneI said...

You have my prayers and thought for the whole day!

Denise said...

Good karma coming you way!!

Anonymous said...

She's beautiful and I'll be holding you all in the light this afternoon.

Holly said...

We sure wish we could be sitting there with you keeping you company.
Were sending warm hugs and positive thoughts and prayers.
Lots of love, holly, lois and andrew

Anonymous said...

Little miss Riley Jo should be starting her surgery soon so I just wanted to send you my love and let you know I am praying that everything goes smooth this afternoon. I love you guys!! Big hugs to the three of you.

Anonymous said...

i'LL BE PRAYING FOR YOU ITS HARD
TO HEAR ABOUT ANY LITTLE ONE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS AND WHEN ITS YOUR OWN WELL, I COULDNT IMAGINE, I JUST KNOW ITS GONNA GO WITHOUT A HITCH YOU SEEM LIKE YOU ARE THE PERFECT MOTHERS FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL BABY!!!SO SWEET!!

Jojo said...

Congratulations!!!!The pictures bring tears to my eyes!!
You have our most heartfelt prayers for the coming surgery!
Hugs and love,
jojo

Anonymous said...

another delurker here! have been reading your blog for 6 or so months now. so glad riley arrived safely and our family wish yours the best of luck for the surgery. may the 6 hours fly by and may your precious little girl be as well as well can be.

NiaCP said...

Working for the University Hospital and closely with Primary Children's, I have so much respect for their talents. You are in very good hands!! That said, our prayers will not hurt so you have them!!

Anonymous said...

Your daughter is so beautiful and adorable. We are praying for Riley and your family.
I am 19 weeks pregnant with my first child and last week at my routine ultrasound they found a cystic hygroma that measured 3 cm in diameter & is limited to the right side of the neck. We are just trying to learn more about this condition to know what we will be facing. The doctors are telling us that if it does not grow much larger it will be able to be removed after birth. Any advice or information would be greatly appreciated. This condition is so rare that you are the only ones we've seen with the possibility of contacting. leeanndeas@yahoo.com Thank you very much. We will have Riley in our thoughts and prayers.

Our Conception Story

After eight years together we were pretty sure we'd spend our life with our four legged kids, doing lots of camping, and traveling the world. On August 12, 2004 that all changed with the birth of our God Daughter Tate. We immediately fell completely in love with her and soon began to re-think our decision of not having kids.

In October 2005 we began the process of trying to conceive. As soon as we started trying Shelly began having very erratic cycles which made the process that more complicated. After four tries over six months we decided to schedule a consultation with the a Reproductive Specialist. We were desperate to conceive and on a limited time frame since Shelly had just turned 41. Dee was 35 at the time but not able to conceive due to a medical procedure.

Our first appointment with the Repro Man was May 2006. He suggested we try IVF using Dee's eggs and Shelly as the gestational mother. He felt this scenario would give us the highest chance for success of a healthy pregnancy. We spent a short amount of time weighing our options and decided this was the best choice. We began our first IVF cycle in August. They did the Egg Retrieval and Fertilization on 8/31. Three days later, 9/3, they transferred three embryos into Shelly. Then the wait began.

Shelly promised not to begin the home pregnancy test too soon. Dee had to travel out of state for business a week after the transfer and asked Shelly to please wait to test. BUT, the wait was too much for her and she started testing after a week. At first there was no line. But after a couple of days testing a faint line started to appear. When Dee came home from her trip Shelly told her, "I know I'm pregnant." Dee didn't believe her and insisted the line wasn't dark enough so she tested herself to compare. There was absolutely no line. She began to believe Shelly was pregnant but still had doubt. Dee went to the store and bought another brand of testing strips. After five home tests, we were convinced we we're pregnant due to all positive results. A blood test at two weeks confirmed it; we were going to have a baby!