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Friday, March 16, 2007

I'm Starving my Wife and Child

I'm only Shelly's S%&T list today.

Today was our OB appointment and her Glucose Tolerance test. I was 100% sure she needed to fast for the Glucose test. I even called a friend just to make sure. So Shelly was allowed NOTHING but a little water after 10:00 pm last night. We the found out at the lab that there was no need for the fasting. Oops! Word of caution to all non-carrying spouses out there - NEVER STARVE A PREGNANT WOMAN!! Hopefully once the bagel kicks in she'll forgive me.

No results yet on the Glucose or Iron tests. I'm not sure if we'll hear back from the lab today or Monday.

No protein in Shelly's urine! Great news as they we're previously slightly concerned about Preeclampsia.

She gained 4 pounds this past month putting her at a total of just over 7 pounds total for the pregnancy. The doctor's happy with this as she'd like her to keep her weight gain between 10 and 15 pounds.

She's measuring 31 weeks which is a week ahead. This means we could have a big baby.

Shelly's back has REALLY been bothering her. She has a history of back problems and had back surgery about 12-13 years ago. The doctor has finally convinced her to give Physical Therapy a try. She starts that next week.

Next week is our next Ultrasound. They'll most likely talk to us about beginning non-stress tests on the baby which will require a trip to Maternal Fetal Medicine twice a week.

Isn't it odd that in your last weeks of pregnancy you get the least amount of rest. We're going from one OB and one MFM appointments a month to:
  • One OB appointment every two weeks
  • One Physical Therapy appointment every week
  • Two Maternal Fetal Medicine appointments a week

Shelly's not looking forward to this. Her big question is "When will I find time for my nap?". And again she reminds me that it's not easy being 41 (soon to be 42) and pregnant. But it's all going to be worth it when we officially welcome our beautiful baby girl into this world.

9 comments:

Wendy and Karen said...

Hope physical therapy provides her some back relief. Hang in there!

K J and the kids said...

I love that you are getting to your every 2 week appointments.
I CANNOT believe you are almost 30 weeks. She will be here in NO TIME AT ALL.

I hope the physical therapy helps. It did Kori.

If it helps, I fasted for my stress tests too. I thought you were supposed to. hmm who knew.

Can't wait to see more belly pics.
I still can't believe they only want her to gain 10 lbs. That is unreal.

hotomiky said...

Hope physical therapy will help with your back.

Wow - Your going to be 30 wks. Time flies! Enjoy your time with dogs and shelly.

Hang in there :o)

hotomiky said...
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hotomiky said...

oops.. I mixed up with Dee and Shelley

Merr said...

Ooops! How were you to know eh? At least she is fed now! I loved the end of the pregnancy and going to all the appointments. It really helped my weeks fly by!

Unknown said...

Shelly I am soooo SORRY you fasted! I am the guilty friend that Dee called and I apologize. But, from my own and work experience, you do have to fast for the GTT. Will you ever forgive me??

tifferny said...

LOL...shame on you for starving them! Bad, bad wife & mommy!!! :)

Glad to hear all went well on the glucose test. Oh and physical therapy is really great! I did both PT and chiropractic treatments but primarly stuck w/ the chiropractor route throughout my pregnancy. Both are a wonderful, welcome treat for any preggo. Hope Shelly's back is feeling well again soon!

Casey said...

It's not easy being an older pregnant woman. I was 40 when my daughter was born.

I hope the PT helps her back - that sure is no fun.

Our Conception Story

After eight years together we were pretty sure we'd spend our life with our four legged kids, doing lots of camping, and traveling the world. On August 12, 2004 that all changed with the birth of our God Daughter Tate. We immediately fell completely in love with her and soon began to re-think our decision of not having kids.

In October 2005 we began the process of trying to conceive. As soon as we started trying Shelly began having very erratic cycles which made the process that more complicated. After four tries over six months we decided to schedule a consultation with the a Reproductive Specialist. We were desperate to conceive and on a limited time frame since Shelly had just turned 41. Dee was 35 at the time but not able to conceive due to a medical procedure.

Our first appointment with the Repro Man was May 2006. He suggested we try IVF using Dee's eggs and Shelly as the gestational mother. He felt this scenario would give us the highest chance for success of a healthy pregnancy. We spent a short amount of time weighing our options and decided this was the best choice. We began our first IVF cycle in August. They did the Egg Retrieval and Fertilization on 8/31. Three days later, 9/3, they transferred three embryos into Shelly. Then the wait began.

Shelly promised not to begin the home pregnancy test too soon. Dee had to travel out of state for business a week after the transfer and asked Shelly to please wait to test. BUT, the wait was too much for her and she started testing after a week. At first there was no line. But after a couple of days testing a faint line started to appear. When Dee came home from her trip Shelly told her, "I know I'm pregnant." Dee didn't believe her and insisted the line wasn't dark enough so she tested herself to compare. There was absolutely no line. She began to believe Shelly was pregnant but still had doubt. Dee went to the store and bought another brand of testing strips. After five home tests, we were convinced we we're pregnant due to all positive results. A blood test at two weeks confirmed it; we were going to have a baby!